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Self-Evaluation Maintenance Theory

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-evaluation_maintenance_theory This graph illustrates the basic principles of Tesser's (1988) self-evaluatory maintenance model of behavior. Relevance determines whether reflection or comparison will occur. When relevance is low (the factor does not affect self-definition) as the other’s performance increases, so does self-evaluation, allowing that person to share in the celebration of the other person (reflection). When relevance is high (the factor is important to self-definition also) as the other’s performance increases, self-evaluation decreases because that person is being compared to the other person (comparison). If relevance is high, then one will engage in comparison, but if relevance is low, one will engage in reflection.

Atheism

With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil—that takes religion. -Steven Wienberg Understand the difference between atheism and agnosticism . An atheist does not believe that a god/gods do exist. Most atheists observe that there is no proof that a god/gods exist. Because there is no verifiable evidence that a god/gods exist, they do not incorporate a god/gods into their decision making. Agnostics do not believe it is possible to know of the existence of a god or gods. You do not have to be anti-religion. Most atheists, however, do disapprove of organized religion as well as the doctrine of faith as a virtue. There are others who still attend religious services for their own reasons, such as an agreement with some of the moral tenets, membership in a community, or even just a fondness for the music. You do not have to write off the  possibility  of unverified or unverifiable phenomena. You can acknow...

MHS... hahaha

So today, a security guard came and got me out of my 2nd hour class and took me to "the lady dean" (as I call her) Mrs. Smiegelski's office. Apparently, one of my teachers said that I had "an odor of alcohol" about me, so Mrs. S basically started asking me if I was drunk. Um, last time I checked, Apple Cinnamon Chai tea doesn't smell alcoholic.. what so ever. Also, as I sit in a small, enclosed office with and right next to you, don't you think you would be able to tell if I smelled like alcohol? Not only were they randomly questioning me about my (non-existent) alcohol use at not even 10:00 in the morning, but then they fucking breathalyzed me. I obviously blew 0.0, because I DON'T FUCKING DRINK, much less before/at school. When they finally realized that I was 100% sober, as they never should have questioned in the first place, they said "well now we know what kind of person you are. you're honest and you're actually not into that kin...

America for Better or Worse

Calls poor Americans lazy, works seven months a year, he is the President. Plus they all leave the government millionaires with socialized medicine and lifetime retirements.

True Story

Hated opinions/facts: Justin Beiber sucks, Nikki Minaj sucks, Drake sucks, Lil Wayne sucks, 2pac isn't the best rapper, everyone is slightly influenced by homosexual people, hip hop has been feminized, in general men still control women, in general woman are smarter, if everyone had big dicks that would mean everyone is average, middle class people like to complain more than the lower class, most lower class people are black or Hispanic, most middle class people are white, the US government is corrupt, those who hate on the US are ignorant, when you refer to the US as America you sound stupid, Nationalism has got you hating the US, there is no god, the radio is "bread and circuses" at its finest, someone has jacked off to you if you're hot, if you're a hot female most your guy friends would fuck you, most guys just want sex, communism would only work in theory, you're unimportant, all pages are like whores, all drugs should be legalized, gun control is stupid,...

Very Wise Words said in a Modern Context (2013)

I don't fucking sign onto Facebook to see a bunch of babies being run over, animals being punched, a picture of a person who shaved their head being used for sympathy, or some highly disturbing shit. Liking a fucking Facebook photo for some like-whore Facebook page isn't going to prove you're against animal abuse and what not, and your like sure as hell isn't going to cure some kids cancer, no matter how much "1 like = $1" they post all over the place. Call me heartless or whatever the hell you want, but there's actually shit you can do to help with shit like that. Not liking a fucking photo and blowing up peoples newsfeeds with that shit. When you're ordering pizza for you and your brother and the guy on the phone has a thick Indian accent, and you suddenly hear two women screaming in the background. ok. I see all these girls, even some guys with super long hair, and I'm just sitting here petting my hair like, "one day you'll be just...

What causes low self-esteem? (suggested question for discussion)

Top Answers: Being talked down to by the people you love.. It can take a toll on any bright sprit. Low dopamine dosis in the system that causes low-self esteem Also, environmental as far as how your parents talked to you (nurturing & encouraging vs. critical & judgmental). This can cause negative self talk which leads to low-self esteem & low self-worth. astrology & natal charts, chemical balances in the brain, upbringing & environmental situations, diets & the type of food you eat, yourself & your individual personality anything could be a contributing factor to the way you feel on a certain daym i dont think self esteem is a constant thing, I think it fluctuates depending on the consistent personality you have compared to the type of day youre having and how other pe ople treat you. but basically in the end, you control how you react to life but if you have a chemical imbalance, the ability to stay positive is difficult. also being low on certain...